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February 25, 2014

Tips and support services available for family caregivers

NORMAN — Dear Savvy Senior, What resources do you recommend that offer help to caregivers? I’ve been taking care of my 82-year-old mother, and it’s wearing me to a frazzle.

— Exhausted Daughter

 

Dear Exhausted,

Taking care of an elderly loved one over a period of time can be incredibly taxing, both physically and mentally. Fortunately, there are a number of tips and services you can turn to that can help lighten the load. Here are several to consider.

· Assemble a care team: A good first step is to put together a network of people (family, friends and neighbors) that you can call on to help out when you can’t be there or need a break.

· Tap local services: Most communities offer a range of free or subsidized services that help seniors and caregivers by providing things like home-delivered meals, transportation, senior companion services and more.

Also, look into respite services (see respitelocator.org) that can provide short-term care to your mom so you can take some time off. Your area Agency on Aging (call 800-677-1116 for contact information) can refer you to services available in your community.

· Use financial aids: If you’re handling your mom’s financial chores, make things easier by arranging direct deposit for her income sources, and set up automatic payments for her utilities and other routine bills.

If you need help, hire a professional daily money manager (aadmm.com, 877-326-5991) who can come in once or twice a month to pay bills, make deposits, decipher health insurance statements and balance her checkbook. They charge $25 to $100 per hour. Or, if your mom is low-income, a similar service is offered by AARP (aarpmmp.org) in select communities for free.

Benefitscheckup.org is another excellent resource you should use to look for financial assistance programs for lower-income seniors.

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