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June 13, 2014

Suggestions on potty training

NORMAN — Q: We began toilet training our daughter when she was 21 months old. Within 10 days, she was consistently using the toilet for No. 1. She now wears underwear 24/7.

The problem is that she’s now 23 months old and has had only four successful BMs on the toilet. She has a BM when she’s still in bed in the morning or sometime during her nap. Her BMs are impossible to anticipate. When I discover her accident, I simply remind her she needs to go on the toilet.

I read your toilet training book and know about the use of a gate. Do you think I should go in that direction?

 

A: The “gate” refers to a child-proof gate that is used to confine a child in the bathroom or whatever room the parents have put the potty.

I recommend that a gate be used in conjunction with a “potty bell” — a simple kitchen timer that’s set to go off at regular intervals in anticipation of the child’s need to use the potty.

When the bell goes off, the parents remind the child that it’s time to use the potty. If the child is resistant, then I sometimes recommend that the parents use a gate.

If the child in question perceives that the gate is being used punitively, then the child’s resistance is likely to increase. If a gate is used, then the potty should be located in a non-threatening room, like the child’s play room.

If the child gets used to being confined to one fairly interesting room from the time he begins moving around, and that’s the room in which the potty is placed (there’s no requirement that a toddler has to “go” in the bathroom), the child should cooperate readily in training and it shouldn’t take more than a few weeks.

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