NORMAN — Weather didn’t stop some residents from attending
Christmas Day 2012 was full of the season’s traditional earmarks in Norman — the hush of a city on holiday, bitter, cold winds with ice and a dusting of snow, and the culmination of months of planning and years of generosity: The Norman Free Christmas Day Community Dinner.
“I wasn’t too worried about the weather,” said Bob Magarian, dinner coordinator and host. “You have to expect the numbers to go down a little, but if we only served five people today, we’d be here.”
Tuesday marked the dinner’s 26th anniversary, continuing a rain-or-shine event whose inaugural dinner in 1987 was marked by the worst ice storm Norman had seen at the time.
“We served 20 people and had 24 volunteers that year,” Magarian said.
Though the dinner has expanded to roughly 10 times its initial size, the dinner’s first crowd, however small, left a major impression on Magarian and his fellow volunteers.
“A man who attended the first dinner with his wife and two children told me this dinner was going to be their Christmas, since he’d lost his job a week before and the family had no money,” Magarian said. “People there that first year asked me, ‘Are you going to do this again?’ and I said, ‘I’m not going to do this again, we are.’”
Longtime volunteer Dorothy Kitchens had a similar experience at her first community dinner in 1988.
“The first year I volunteered, I saw a lot of guests at the dinner who were in great need, and the years following, we advertised and opened it up to the community because no one should be by themselves on Christmas,” Kitchens said.
Since then, Kitchens has made volunteering a part of every Christmas, saying that though the work is tiring, it’s a “good tired.”