“He considered the guys in the platoon his heroes,” Dallam said.

The younger Dallam was scheduled to come home on leave next week.

“We were making plans to do stuff with him,” Dallam said.

The young man kept in close contact with his family, usually phoning at least once a week.

Dallam said he was surprised several years back when his son mentioned the Army as a potential career choice. The father recalled telling the teenager about the risks involved with the military, but he also realized that his son was surrounded by the Army life as he grew up.

“I think it was really what he wanted to do deep down,” Dallam said. “He liked the structure and his officers.”

After he enlisted in the Army, Dallam reported to Fort Leonard Wood Army Post for basic training, his father said. He was later assigned to a company based out of Schweinfurt, Germany.

He was a member of the Headquarters Company, 1st/18th Infantry, 2nd Brigade Combat Team, 1st Infantry Division that was deployed to Iraq.

Since Friday, both the soldier’s battalion and company commanders have phoned the Dallam family and expressed their condolences.

“His company commander told me that Ryan was one of the guys who was always upbeat,” he said.

“I was really proud of him, and it’s reassuring that they held him in such high regard,” Dallam said.

Dallam has also spoken with his ex-wife over the phone. He said the mother is devastated and is doing as well as can be expected. She and her only child were close.

Besides his father and stepmother, Dallam is survived by his mother of Show Low; sister Tayler, brother Jason, grandfather Retired Col. Harold Dallam and aunt Carla Waugh, all of Norman; grandmother Jamie Dunmire, Henryetta, and many more relatives and friends.

A memorial service for the soldier is planned for 4:30 p.m. Thursday at First Christian Church, 220 S. Webster Ave. A Catholic Mass will be planned later at Fort Sill National Cemetery, near Lawton.

Meghan McCormick366-3539mmccormick@normantranscript.com